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#444 - A Christmas of Gratitude, Grace, Hope, and Love

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Each Christmas, we return to a familiar and sacred story, one that never loses its power, no matter how many times we hear it.

In Gospel of Luke 2:9–14, we’re reminded that the birth of Jesus did not arrive with fanfare, comfort, or perfection. It arrived in the middle of uncertainty, fear, and humble surroundings. Shepherds were startled. Angels reassured them. And into a broken world, hope was quietly born.

“Do not be afraid… I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all people.”

That message still matters especially after a year like this one.

As this year comes to a close, many of us find ourselves holding a mixture of gratitude and grief. There were moments of joy, growth, and connection. And there were also disappointments, unanswered prayers, and challenges we never expected to face. Some relationships deepened. Others ended. Some hopes were fulfilled. Others were deferred.

And yet, here we are.

Christmas has a way of gently shifting our focus. The lights, the music, the traditions…beautiful as they are, eventually fade into the background. What remains is something quieter and far more meaningful; the reminder that God meets us exactly where we are, not where we wish we were.

For many, especially those navigating midlife or singleness, this season can stir complex emotions. Memories surface. Empty chairs are noticed. The future may feel uncertain. Dating, relationships, and companionship can feel heavier at this time of year.

But the Christmas story offers us grace here too.

Jesus did not enter the world once everything was “fixed.” He entered it right in the middle of the mess. And that truth invites us to give ourselves permission to stop striving for perfection, especially in our relationships, and instead lean into patience, wisdom, and trust.

Scripture reminds us in Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” That closeness is not conditional. It is a promise.

This season, perhaps the greatest gift we can offer, both to ourselves and to others, is grace. Grace for the choices we made while doing the best we could. Grace for relationships that didn’t turn out as hoped. Grace for the lessons learned, even when they came with heartache.

And gratitude for the ways God carried us through.

As we reflect on this year, may we also remember that growth often happens quietly. Healing takes time. Wisdom deepens through experience. And hope, like that first Christmas night, often arrives softly, but it arrives, nonetheless.

So this Christmas, may we pause. May we give thanks for the good. May we release what we cannot change. And may we trust that God is still at work shaping hearts, restoring faith, and preparing something meaningful ahead.

“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men.”

May that peace meet you exactly where you are today.

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas filled with gratitude, grace, hope, and love for the year to come.

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#444 - A Christmas of Gratitude, Grace, Hope, and Love

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