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#339 - What does an extraordinary relationship look like? dating


From time to time I get asked this question and sometimes it’s the statement that there are...

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#338 - Just for laughs. dating humor


I’ve been divorced for nearly 12 year now. I’ve had more than my share of dates and a...

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#337 - Truth: Can you handle it? communication respect self worth

Merriam-Webster defines truth as:
1 – the body of real things, events, and facts: ACTUALITY...

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#336 - What the opposite sex thinks about your online dating profile online dating


Every Tuesday on my Facebook page I post a question generally about dating. The questions vary...

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#335 - Letting go. connection emotions fear


Lessons I’m learning about life.

Some memories propel us forward and some hold us back.

For...

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#334 - Are you dating randomly or intentionally? and common interests. when you take most of the relationship obstacles out of your way in the beginning and physical connections. this means you have to know what you’re looking for before you start dating. you need to invest time in yourself to figure out what will bring you your greatest joy. this also means that you have to be emotionally heathy and ready to date. it means you have to leave your past behind you and start looking to a better future. you have to be proactive and creative in where you look for your soul mate. where do you start? you start with my book click here. to order from amazon in paperback or on kindle dating dating backward: a practical guide to dating and finding your soul mate. dating backward was written to help you make better choices about the people you date and the relationships you enter into. the best relationships are built on strong foundations emotional having common morals and values intentionaldater it’s time to make some serious changes in your dating life. it’s time to stop your random dating and start dating with intention. dating intentionally means that you start to really think about what’s important to you in a relationship. what are your must haves and what are your deal breakers? it’s time to start looking for relationships where you can develop healthy intellectual let me ask you a question. would you take a long vacation without planning for it? would you randomly pack a suitcase not knowing where you were going? would you then go to the airport and try to book a ticket to somewhere in hopes that there’d be an empty seat for you? then once you got to wherever you could get to spiritual then why is this the way you date? when you put more thought into what you’re going to have for dinner than what you want in your next relationship you’re dating by accident. you’re letting randomness guide your dating life. you’re more likely to end up in poor relationship than a great one. when you can you tell me more about what you don’t want than what you do want in your next relationship you’re focusing on the wrong things. when you consistently choose partners badly you’re not crystal clear about what you want in a mate. when you stay in poor relationships too long because you’re afraid of hurting their feelings or because it’s easier to stay than to start over where do you stay? you don’t have any accommodations reserved so you’re stuck with whatever might be available. you could get really lucky and end up in a 5-star resort or you could end up in a bug infested dump. this is exactly the way dating goes today. if this isn’t the way you’d take a vacation you don’t have faith that something better actually exists for you. if any one of these things sounds like you you don’t value yourself enough. when you stay because the sex is good but the rest of the relationship isn’t you’re dating for all the wrong reasons! when you stay in a mediocre relationship because you don’t believe in extraordinary relationships or soul mates you won’t need to spend a lot of time trying to fix a broken relationship or marriage later on. i won’t lie. finding your soul mate is challenging. but when you find your forever love you’ll instantly recognize why none of your past relationships worked out. to order your copy of dating backward from my website


Let me ask you a question.
Would you take a long vacation without planning for it? Would you...

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#333 - Wait! Why is your unhappiness my fault? communication courage


Have you ever walked away from a friendship or relationship because it wasn’t healthy for...

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#332 - Just because you're in love doesn't mean it's with the right one dating emotions relationships


We’ve all been in love. And we’ve all been in love with the wrong one. Odds are if...

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#331 - Some days are easier than others dating relationships

Most days I can just sit down and write about dating or relationships and in an hour or so...

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#330 - Where are these emotions coming from? dating emotions

Over the weekend I had a conversation that brought out some painful memories from my past....

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#329 - Same coin, different side dating divorced starting over widowed


Last week I wrote about some emails I’ve been receiving from widowers that are bound and...

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#328 - Emotional healing won't come from another relationship!


I’ve had a rash of emails in the past month or so from widowers that soon after their wife...

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