#120 - Are you perfectly clear about what you want in a relationship?
Recently I had an opportunity to attend a speed dating event as a participant. The question I asked all the ladies that came to sit in front of me was this; “Describe your ideal relationship.” That question took most of the women by surprise. At least 90% of them had never thought about that question and could only come up with vague answers like companionship, honesty, supportive and loving. Only one woman could actually describe her ideal relationship in any detail.
- How will you know when you have found your soul mate (or extraordinary relationship)?
- What is stopping you from having this relationship right now?
- What resources will you need to help you find your extraordinary relationship? Some examples might include getting physically fit, getting involved in church or social groups, creating an on-line dating profile, gain control of your finances, just to name a few. In other words, are you the person you need to be to attract your ideal mate?
Before you go out on another date, become absolutely clear about what you are looking for. Don’t waste any more time dating people that do not have extraordinary relationship potential.