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Dating Backward - A Practical Guide to Dating and Finding Your Soul Mate
Dating Backward

Stop Settling. Start Living.

Ready for an EXTRAORDINARY relationship in your second act?

Here's the TRUTH about dating after 40 most "experts" won't tell you...

Dating Backward

A practical guide to dating and finding your soul mate

Rediscover Love and Build Extraordinary Relationships with Dating Backward

Are you a mid-life single feeling disheartened by the modern dating scene? After years—or even decades—of marriage, finding yourself back in the dating world can feel overwhelming and disconnected from what you expected.

You're not alone. Many singles in their 40s, 50s, and 60s find dating today to be frustrating, discouraging, and full of challenges they didn't anticipate. Maybe you've tried online dating and felt like giving up after a string of disappointing encounters. Perhaps the bar scene feels uninviting, or you're tired of being the third wheel among married friends.

In Dating Backward, you'll discover a proven roadmap to navigate the complexities of mid-life dating and create a healthy, extraordinary relationship:

  • The Four Cornerstones of Great Relationships—Discover the foundational pillars for lasting connection and why they're essential for relationship success.
  • Craft Your "Must-Have" and "Deal-Breaker" Lists—Identify what truly matters to you in a partner, so you never settle for less than extraordinary.
  • Master Great Communication—Learn the skills to foster deep, meaningful connections and avoid miscommunication traps.
  • Recognize Healthy vs. Toxic Relationships—Spot red flags early and save yourself time and emotional energy.

Whether you're starting over after a long marriage, frustrated with the dating world, or unsure how to find someone who aligns with your values and desires, Dating Backward offers actionable guidance to transform your dating experience.

Hundreds of mid-life singles have used the strategies in this book to move from being discouraged and disheartened to thriving as one half of a soul-connected couple.

It's time to leave the frustration behind and embrace the extraordinary relationship you deserve.

What Readers Are Saying

"I am not a big reader, but this book is fantastic. Great practical information giving in a easily understandable way. I underline a lot and see not only things to do differently, but things I do right as well. Since starting I have found and nurtured a exquisite relationship and we read pieces together and discuss. Thanks for a great tool."

— William

"This book was comforting after leaving a toxic relationship. It reaffirms that as hard as it was and still is, the relationship was not good for me and causing me unnecessary stress. You need more than love to make a relationship work and even though I am not emotionally ready to get back into the dating scene, I have a clearer understanding of what I want and will settle for no less. Good read!"

— Freckles

"The author presents a very thoughtful and common sense approach to finding a soul mate. Very helpful."

— Paxton

The extraordinary relationship you deserve is waiting

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